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Throughout the course, you will develop a more attractive and confident way of interacting with women and the world — so that dating and attraction come easy. The course has four modules with over 9 hours of content. This is why lots of guys come to Love Systems live training workshops with their friends, or end up finding quality wingmen there.
Few women normally want to hook up while their friends look on. How close are you to a place where sex could reasonably happen? Her place is okay too, but usually not as effective. Other factors come into play logistically — for example, how much time she has, whether she has to get up in the morning, etc.
You live 45 minutes away, and both drove separate cars to get there. You, my friend, are not going home with her tonight. In fact, as we will see, it was counter-productive to advance so far Emotionally and Physically when your Logistics were so unfavorable. Because the Logistical Progression Model has two separate variables Social and Locationit is a little bit more flexible than the stricter step-by-step Emotional and Physical systems.
In other words, you can do the two major steps in any order. You can get her alone first, and then take her home.
Or you can take her home first and then her friends leave or get distracted for long enough. Or you can do both at once — e. Those are your basic plays, but there are also a bunch of intermediate steps available to you, depending on the situation.
The latter option is another reason why good wingmen are so valuable. These are the easiest moves to make. In a club, for example, you can move a woman to the outdoor patio, to the bar to get a drink, to a quiet area to sit, to the dance floor, to another part of the club where they have different music, to look for your friends, etc.
In-venue moves can give you usually temporary privacy from her friends, but even if her friends come with you, these moves are helpful for building momentum toward bigger moves later. Ideally these should trend geographically toward home. For example, you might meet a woman at a restaurant, and then suggest grabbing a drink — at a place that is conveniently near where you live, building momentum for the big move to your place later on.
In general, the more attractive the woman and the bigger the city, the more risks you take by settling for a phone number.
Only rely on the phone number when other paths forward are truly closed. When other guys get phone numbers, we get the girl.
These location tools are especially effective when you use little moves to create momentum. Because everyone is unique, some implications may be more important to your style than others.
But here are a few important ones to get you started: Always be moving toward the center. Taking the useless extra stuff out of your game should already improve your results. So - whenever you feel stuck — move toward the center. It will bore or frustrate most women. Lack of momentum can work against you through no fault of your own. Momentum can also work for you. Each phase that you can smoothly pass through builds up your momentum for the next one.
By the way, this is where the more advanced concepts of investment and social momentum otherwise outside the scope of this chapter come into play. There are shortcuts if you learn the relationships between specific points on the Triad. The three models are not isolated and separate. For example, the very act of moving up the first two steps on the Physical Progression Model will help you emotionally. Study after study has shown that women are more apt to be sexually and romantically interested in men when there is appropriate touching as a subtext to their conversation.
This actually applies to nonromantic interactions as well. The more contexts in which she sees herself with you, the better she will feel she knows you. For example, a date that hits three places for an hour each is much better than a date that stays in one place for three hours.
Building deep comfort when there is no physical conversation is the easiest way to get her to say: When you approach a woman or a group of people, you have to evaluate what type of opener is best for the situation: All of them have pros and cons.
Direct openers work less often, but when they do, your value starts off high because the woman has accepted your initial frame. The Love Systems model is a step-by-step approach.
Take it one step at a time. Remember that approaching is really not that big of a deal. People talk to strangers all the time, and you should never feel guilt or shame about wanting to talk to a new woman. If you find yourself freezing with approach anxiety, this is usually because you fear rejection. The more you are rejected, the less it will affect you and the better your approach skills will become. One of the best ways to reduce approach anxiety and the chance of rejection is to put yourself in a social mood by doing warm ups.
Pre-selection plays on the fact that women are attracted to men who are attractive to other women. Role-plays conjure up a fun imaginary situation and project you and the woman into it. Tap her on the shoulder and point to your friend. I was going to pass you a note, but I figured it would be good practice for him to talk to you.
Keep them short in clubs. So, are you guys having fun? If she said ten, she becomes a twelve. Have fun with it and they will too. This one is all about the energy level.
When you bring energy to the interaction, it works amazingly well. This is a great club opener. Delivered in a deadpan, smart-ass tone, it usually gets a laugh for the absurdity. Not sure if you got the memo. There are people trying to relax and study and stuff. Have an item in hand or just be staring into a shop window at some products.
What do you think? Can you give me an opinion on something? I mean about you and me! Look how fucking hot we are! We should have a few little ones and sell them to Brad and Angelina Simply type into your phone: You guys are so much fun to hang out with.
A guy would have to be crazy to even try to approach you guys. You must avoid this at all costs. Use the following to get out of it. I like you guys and I would hate to see him beat you up.
I will help you get guys to come over and run through your gauntlet. I love watching you humiliate them. Be very sexually flirtatious in your demonstration and send her on her mission. Continue working the group and being the life of the party until you can isolate the girl you are interested in.
It shocks them into reacting and can create a playful vibe from the start. Then, you can say: Kisser, Love Systems Instructor 37 Indirect openers use a pretext to approach: A positive, genuine-sounding delivery helps ensure a positive response. This is particularly good for especially hot women who have a large social circle that makes them less accessible, or women who have blown off several guys before you. Turn to her and simply say: Are you having fun?
Move onto something else and keep the positive momentum rolling. You will be in good shape right out of the gate.
For instance, me and my ex used to play this game when we went out to the clubs: Simply asking a question is fine but sometimes they can fall flat if they come across too heavy, literal and serious. This is a good example of a casual opener that has a better chance of flowing into further conversation. A small joke is built in, showing that you have a sense of humor which makes them more apt to want to continue the conversation.
Humor is always attractive. I have three friends in long-distance relationships right now. Sorry to rain on the parade. It has some shock value to it, but most women laugh and have a completely 40 down-to-earth reaction.
My buddy Mike was coming to meet me here tonight and his girlfriend was digging around on his computer and found a folder with porn in it and completely flipped out. Humor is built in and delivered with an awareness of the funny side of the situation. Assume your topic is interesting and that the women will care even if it is inconsequential.
But then my friend said he could go longer, so I had to take him on. Some women will love you right away just for asking this, some women will be disgusted. Try to adjust your performance based on the reactions and make it work. Do you think retards are funny? And he totally said the most retarded thing! Or you can disqualify by disagreeing with whomever they name, and then say you think they look like someone else. You can even mention someone less attractive or less famous than the person she named.
You could then tell a story of something crazy that happened to you as a result of someone mistaking you for that person. I think they must be obsessed with Nicolas Cage over there or something. One night, I had just gotten off stage in Russell Square and I was walking with my girlfriend to the local pub, when some drunk girl thought I was Nicolas Cage.
I told her no, but she insisted that I was him and asked me for his autograph. Think about how many times this has happened to you: Out of nowhere, she loses interest.
You failed to transition out of your opener into something else interesting. Women need their emotional states pumped through a range of emotions at all times, but particularly when you first meet them.
So you need to change the topic. The key is to bridge the gap between approaching and attraction with a transition, which is most easily done with a statement based on something you notice about her or her group. You can think about it like a pendulum: Then, as the pendulum swings all the way to the right, you have to switch gears, transition and talk about something related to her. It can also be done at any point in the conversation where names come up.
Are you kidding me? You have to bring a lint brush! Observe something and comment on it. This can be done spontaneously, based on things you actually see and think are true, or you can use a prepared cold read because they lead to predictable responses that you can follow with ready-made jokes. We would never get along. You dog people are all clingy, needy, and supplicating. Have you ever seen two cats in the alley when they approach each other? I better watch out for you. You and me are so not going to get along.
The comedy that I write and perform is on the complete other end of the comedic spectrum. We are too similar. Kisser, Love Systems Instructor BIG EYES This is a great observational routine that teaches her something and gets things moving around while creating some fun with the camera instead of just keeping it conversational.
Do you like the way you look in photos? But there is a trick I found that will instantly help you look a little better in your photos. There are five traits that pre dominantly determine whether you are beautiful or not Facial asymmetry, body fat percentage, muscle tone and proportion, and skin tone These traits 95 per cent of the time will deem you gorgeous, ugly, or somewhere in between.
Look around at all the attractive people in the world. What do they all have in common outside beauty? They all have big eyes. And while not every beautiful woman has big eyes, the correlation is astounding. Why do you think Japanese cartoon characters always have huge eyes?
All you have to do is raise your eyebrows a little bit. And open the eyes slightly wider than normal. Raising the eyebrows is also a natural human reaction to happiness, which will make you look friendlier.
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Then compare the two pictures. You can even ask someone else to evaluate which looks better. Green Hell, Attraction Forums Member 49 The point of attraction is to get to qualification and ultimately comfort, but a woman will only allow that when sufficiently attracted.
The Attraction phase is crucial. If executed effectively, it allows you to move forward into comfort, where the real work of seduction is done. This opens a wide range of strategies to accomplish this goal. We can distinguish between strategies by classifying routines as either state-based game or intrigue-based game. The strategy is to pump up her buying temperature by making her emotionally stimulated, happy, amused, light-hearted and free.
Playful, silly routines, humor, teasing and physically oriented routines tend to accomplish this. The objective is to positively stimulate her emotions. It targets her intellect, curiosity, fascination, and beliefs and creates new realms of possibility and knowledge. Smart, interesting routines that teach her something or explore intriguing ideas are tools for this.
These can be very powerful in showing that you are a thoughtful person who understands the world and speaks with authority.
They can stimulate paradigm shifts in her mind. Obviously, intrigue game works very well with intelligent women, but it can appeal to all types when delivered in a down-to-earth, unpretentious way. Guys who are high-energy, funny and aggressive tend to lean toward state-based game while guys who are thoughtful, more cerebral and sensitive prefer intrigue-based game.
Playing to your strength is good, but most of the best guys can deliver a balanced combination of both. Too much state-based game can make you seem like a clown who never settles down and too much intrigue game can get dull and overly intellectual. Finding a balance to target both her emotions and her mind heightens the power of your interactions. You can satisfy her on both an emotional and intellectual level. This can be useful but it has its limits. Most of the time we recommend it just as an exercise in enduring social pressure.
For those who insist on it, here are the 10 commandments of plowing. Plowing is inherently fairly rude. Once you hit the point that you need to plow, your social value is low enough that it would be like a bum teasing them.
This stems from a concept called cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is the process we go through to align our behaviors with what we perceive to be our character. However, if you break any social convention, bore them, or are rude they can treat you badly with no repercussions. Keep stacking attraction material.
This comes down to flexibility. Ask questions to keep them engaged.