Capricorn Man and Aquarius Woman ⋆ Astromatcha
What at first would appear to be a highly unlikely relationship between a Capricorn man and an Aquarius woman turns out to have hidden depths – read on to. Capricorn and Aquarius will often find a shared language for as long as they keep a certain distance from each other. If they do come close enough and find. Love match compatibility between Capricorn man and Aquarius woman. Read about the Capricorn male love relationship with Aquarius female. I have been dating my cap man for almost 7 years, and I just found out that he cheated on me .
One of them has stone cold convictions and the need to never be wrong or make a mistake of any kind, while the other has no fear of confrontation and values the image of truth among the human race too much to have the desire to lie. The lack of trust between them is not really the lack of trust they have in each other, but in the possibility this kind of relationship will work out.
They would rather be in no relationship than look at each other in a different way, and because of this they could form a beautiful, lasting friendship. Still, it is important to remember how different they are. For as long as they hold on to shared interests and their mutual love for the seriousness of their bond, they will be able to maintain the image of a strong intellectual bond that makes them both satisfied.
In general interpretations they are both supposed to be unemotional, detached and closed up for emotional interaction with other people. However, this is not exactly the root of their lack of emotional connection. As an Earth sign, Capricorn needs emotions to be shown in a physical, practical way.
This is exactly why they are often described as selfish, taking care only of their own needs. It is not easily accepted by the more spiritual signs that someone gives so much attention to earthly things such as money, or any material or career oriented value. Most likely, it is she who walks up to him and starts a greeting that takes it all to the dating level.
He likes her lively, inquisitive, and intelligent nature. She knows what she is talking about and does not beat around the bush. She also has this mysticism revolving around her, and a sense of seductiveness in the way she carries herself. She is very easy to be friends with, but to go beyond the friendship is a challenging task. She is hard to get, a challenge that intrigues the Capricorn man all the more.
She is also a true humanitarian, who would not hesitate to be involved in a cause that uplifts the oppressed and needy, something that he too would be quite interested in. Her independence and intuitiveness adds to her mystical aura. Her friendly and helpful nature, along with her wide range of contacts from all walks of life, drives him to give this relationship a shot.
Aquarius Women and Capricorn Men
She also shows him a different way to approach the responsibilities of life, which initially, seems enthralling to him. Why can't you be a little conservative? Excuse me, have you met me? Turns out that of the things that seemed attractive initially, some of them took shape of huge issues that are almost impossible to resolve because both these people are stubborn and individualistic. Bottom line is that they are completely different individuals, and the outlook of one can hamper the other's.
The following points enumerate on this statement. Her Issues With Him He is controlling, a trait of his that smothers her in the long run, because to her, freedom and independence are a priority in life. She cannot be dominated, or asked to hold herself back when it is in her nature to be out there. Another thing that gets on her nerves is his tendency to get into this moody and depressive phase where he needs constant boosting and support.
Not that she minds giving it to him, but it seems to be a recurring cycle where he becomes a completely different person, a person she fails to associate with.
He is also highly conscious of his social image, which means, no public display of affection, no excessive friendliness with new people, no going against the conventional norms, and in short, no being the Aquarius female that you are!
Not that our Capri guy is a Hitler of some sort, but he functions and thinks quite conventionally than her. Another great obstacle is the intimacy quotient.
He is not a charmer when it comes to romance, neither is he the experimenting sort in bed. Although he is great and well versed with the art of lovemaking, being the controller that he generally is, it's not that he will do something unconventional or out-of-the-box to make things more interesting. He finds it hard to express his inner feelings, which can sort of disappoint her at times.
Every woman wishes for a family-oriented guy, but he is all about his family! Issues arise when she fails to impress his family, especially his mother. For him, it is a must that the girl he is with gets along with his family and social circle. Any sort of disapproval and lack of interest to change from his Aqua girl may take the relationship down the drain. He would always support his family over his love in such matters.
To keep things under control, or to avoid the blunt words of the Aqua girl, he might also lie to her. But she being intuitive, easily catches him. His Issues With Her He must have smelled the coffee brewing, but thought that he would be able to control it in time; well, he was wrong! He knew she was independent, but he thought he could ground her to being a home and family-oriented partner, just like he is.
Several years ago, he was wanting to have sex with me and I would never give in. He is a very good looking man, could have anybody he wanted too and I knew this so I would never allow myself to just be another notch on his belt. I did see him over the holidays out and about and of course we just stared but nothing is every said.
He just broke up with someone a few months back. This is also the only man that has ever intimidated me. Im scared to talk to him, fear I will get rejected and when I don't have any communication coming from him, then I feel like he isn't interested in me. Could anyone give me some good advise here? Oh this whole thing has been going on for about 10 years. Also after he became a friend of min on FB, he broke up with his g-friend a month later.
To the person above I'm an Aquarian female married to a cappy male and I understand your intimidation. They are very intimidating. This will show him that he can trust you. Once he's your friend and he understands you, then he'll want to take things to the next level.
Thank you for the advice. My friends keep telling me that too. I just have to try and get past the "intimidation" part of it. Plus im not sure if he's over the ex yet and Im afraid of getting rejected for that reason! I am an Aquarian female falling in love with a Cappy from high school. I want to run asap! I am going through the same things with my Capricorn man. I'm Aquarius and like to show my affections to my man.
However, the more open I am with my feelings the more scared he gets. Which is actually working out for my own self worth. Be confident, take care of yourself, strive to make yourself happy, and concentrate on your career. This will not only make your Cap man highly attracted to you but you will be happy and at peace within yourself as well.
This is what he wants for you. Neediness and insecurity is a total turn off to him. Let him know that you admire him and want to be with him, but you also have a life of your own.
Be fun loving and self assured and you will be irresistible to all men esp a Cap. It takes a lot of patience, but the time we spend together is so special, that it is all worth it.
Hey im an Aquarius 19 female im deeply in love with my 39 year old Capricorn boyfriend but im not good at showing to much emotion he shows me and tell me he love me all the time I find it hard 2 give it back I don't no what to do I feel like I should let him go an be happy but I love him im so confused it not about our age that has never been a problem I don't no maybe its just me HELP PLZ.
Leesa ohk Joey is a Capricorn and im of course Aquarius and on the compatibility rate it says we have 1 communication 2 sex and 1 sum other thing but me and Joey hit it off!!! I hooked up with my cappy guy at I love how mysterious he can be but it also makes it very hard to gauge his moods. I think cappys are just naturally skilled in that area! I'm totally relating to these experiences. I am an Aquarius woman dating a Capricorn man who is 10 years older than me.
I am the most faithful person in the world but he just can't grasp that because of my independent nature and the need to love and care for everyone and see the good which they possess - he is kind of judgmental and worries about his reputation, whereas I ignore what people think of me and try to live life according to what I believe is "right", even if others disagree.
I am very forgiving and don't believe in holding grudges. I know I made this sound very negative but there e is more wonderful that keeps me interested in him. I think some of our miscommunication comes from me believing that he is out to get me when in reality its just a difference of perspective. I want to make the best decision for myself but I don't want to be hurt either. I was in love with a Capricorn man when I was a teenager. I messed up big time on our date.
I know I made the mistake and yes it was my fault. After that, I was treated by him just horrible. He constantly avoided me and ignored me when I was in the same room with him.
I gave up on him and moved away. I never seen a Capricorn man show off but he did his best to grab my attention. About 2 years later, I ran into him at his own band practice.
He was singing when I showed up. Again, he starts acting almost loony. I was very turned off by it so I ignored him and sat down. I was soo unimpressed that I called him dumb even to his own brother. I was mad at him and I let his brother k now about it. I didn't expect for the Scorpio brother to start liking me, too!
I could talk to him more easily and joke better, also. I fell under the spell of a Scorpio man. So much so that I was sadly depressed when he moved back out of state to be with his kids. Another year or two later, I ran back into the other brother the show off Capricorn. I went out to celebrate my birthday some. Out of the blue, he comes up to me and says, "Are you not going to say hi to me anymore? I was impressed to see him acting his age.
I don't know whether to give him a chance or wait for the other Scorpio brother to show back up. I'm soo afraid that this Capricorn will hurt me again.
If I wait for the Scorpio than I could be waiting for nothing on him to move back. If anyone can give me some good advice than I am all ears Me and my Capricorn hubby are like best friends and we've been together for like I adore him and he feels the same. He's and amazing kisser, very passionate, but I have the potential as a very single Aquarian woman to get to know a Cap man I believe he is years younger than me.
For many reasons, I am interested to see where this could go, of course, we have to get started first! As I become more Aquarian quirky, changeable yet particular, weird, etc as I age, I find my patience for the dating game waning. Yet in Aquarian fashion, I'm in no hurry to hitch my wagon to the wrong guy--much rather be alone!
Is Cap man going to make me wait and wait and prove myself worthy of him? Do I automatically have a myriad of hoops waiting for me to jump through just to catch his attention? At my level of life experience over 30 that isn't going to fly for me. I cannot believe I have stumbled upon this page. There are so many young Aquarian gals with older Capricorn males. I have recently split from my Capricorn, I moved to the other side of the world to be exact.
We have been together for 4 years, the first 2 were great but then things began to unravel.
Everything that say about our stars are true. I was so hard for me to leave him but there just was not that exact spark, Aquarians are more sociable by nature, plus the age gap! Hard work, I think if I was older then it would have been perfect. Aquarians and Capricorns do click, it just takes some work. Capricorn be more fun and not so pessimistic.
Aquarians get your head out of the clouds and be happy with what you have, it's hard because if your anything like me I am like a bottomless pit, never happy. My first and current boyfriend is a 20 year-old Capricorn. I'm a 19 year old Aquarius. We've been together for nearly five months. Though it hasn't always been running smoothly he has lingering feelings for some of his exes which makes me extremely jealous, I say things without considering his feelings, etc.
And when I say best friends, I truly mean it. We're so honest with each other. He's manly-- but in a subtle way, intelligent, outrageously funny, amazing in bed, and has a lot of tastes similar to mine. Maybe a little brooding, serious, and predisposed to bouts of melancholy now and then, but I know he's a strong-minded individual, courageous and stable, even if he's a little shy at first.
I genuinely LOVE spending time with him. And it's like I can feel his love for me, so I'm starting to trust him a bit more. For me, my love is either devastatingly intense and deep, or more casual and friendly. With him, it's more on the friendly side. It's not wild and passionate, it's more like we have a great companionship in each other. He's not possessive or jealous at all, which I kind of regret, because I like something about possessiveness in a guy.
And I feel like he could be a BIT more passionate about showing his feelings toward me. Maybe if he had some Scorpio in his chart: I am learning so much with my boo.
He has enlightened me in so many way's. I do appreciate him and his knowledge. I hope, at least for me, all my dedication and loyalty will pay off. I have come to terms regarding my love for him. I love my husband. This is one of the best relationships I have ever had. Even the Sex is mind blowing if I might brag. He is a fantastic man and I like it when he takes control. I am happy to go on the ride of my life. He is truly the love of my life. I am talking to a Cancer guy he seems like the guy I been wanting for a long time, he provides for me when I need it, very funny and sexy and honest w.
I just think the fact I am a friendly girl and a lot of people know me and I know some of his people, he thinks that I will never be able to settle downand lately I been staying low key, but I feel like I'm not being my self Aquarius but I am worried what if he is not who he is saying he isbut I guess its a chance that I must takeBut he always seems like he needs his space-- he doesn't believe in relationships, so I don't know if I am wasting my time I like him so much he's always on my mind I would to take care of him and get to know him better I just think I maybe to emotional and I don't want to push its been 9 mnthsand I am still so HAPPY when he's around though I can't show it!
I am an Aquarian woman who has been "dating" a Capricorn man for a little over a year now. We met at work 6 months after my husband passed away lung transplant gone wrong and he was still married-but came on to me hard, and me being the smart ass that I am made it very clear that I did not want a married man coming on to me.
A year later we both end up laid off from our jobs, he's divorced and reluctantly I start talking to him. To start off I'm 9 years older than him, and we live 45 minutes apart. In the beginning he could not do enough for me, brought his 2 girls from the previous marriage over to play with my son on the weekends, it was great-until the holidays came along.
He reluctantly bought me a gift, I feel because I told him I had bought him something. My birthday in January- he asked me what I wanted, told him I wanted my shutters painted because I'm trying sell my house. It's May now and still hasn't been done. Valentine's- he starts a fight with me, we don't s ee each other-no gift. Anyway, you get the picture. On top of that he rarely makes attempts to see me unless I happen to be in town, then he wants me to come overand goes into these moods where he won't text or call-sometimes for a day or so.
When he finally does contact me I'm pissed, I ask him if he wants to just go ahead and end things since we hardly see each other anymore and he tells me I'm crazy and overreacting. If I act cold and aloof he gets mad, but he will pick up the communication for a few days, then it wanes off.
The excuse for not seeing me is that he's working a 2nd job on 3rd shift. Idk, in the beginning he would joke that I was going to be his daughter's new step mom. A year later he doesn't bring them around me anymore, and on the rare occasion he comes to see me he pays little attention to my son-which I call him out on. I want to dump him so bad now.
I get my nerve up, then I think he senses what I'm about to do and puts his sweet face on again. I am usually a pretty carefree person, and not inclined to be jealous or suspicious-but he brings out the worse in me! The only positive was the sex, but even that is becoming far and few between. I tell him if he's not interested just lmk, I'm no one's beast of burden, again he tells me I'm crazy.
Just seems like we play cat and mouse games all the time, as if he gets a perverse thrill from watching me suffer. This is so hard. I'm an outgoing Aquarius who was set up on a blind date with a Cappy man. I wasn't immediately attracted to him but I instantly fell in love with his personality. We ended up sitting in his car talking till 3: I've never had a connection with anyone like this. I'm gonna see him tonight I am a true Aquarian woman. I have been talking to a true Capricorn man for about a month in a half.
I am good friends with his sister and his mother has accepted me as part of the family. The family says I am his next girlfriend and some say I am his girlfriend. His sister says when he really likes someone he takes his time, but if he dint care he would just one night me and never call again. We haven't went to the next level.
We have had quite a few long nights sitting up talking sharing our own ideas and opinions of any subject that comes up. Every time we see each other we kiss and when we part we kiss but, don't let me forget to kiss himbecause HE will ask WHERE is my kiss. I do prioritize, by giving him his space, but also letting him know I am still here at the same time. I am more of a "if we are going to do this, then lets do thisbut if were not, then let me know Now!
I sometimes want to back off because I don't want to get to close and feel I am sitting here for nothing, but the sex appeal is strong, I cant imagine what it would be like, if we ever get sexually involved. I'm 24 and just recently couple months realized who I was and what truly makes me happy in life. I met him long ago thru an ex, 2 years later I needed help with my car, and was told he can help me out.
At the time, he was going through relationship problems. He was about to propose to her and everything, 9 years deep. But she was treating him wrong in all sorts of ways, but he never spoke of it to anyone. Couldn't let go, didn't want to change their annoying trait! Being an Aquarian, it was easy to notice something was wrong, but because I wasn't close to him, I had to ask him various questions, which ultimately led me to finally get him to open up.Why Capricorn Men & Capricorn Women and Aquarius Men & Aquarius Women Are So Complex
Since then, he's a love Dr. He says he doesn't want to hurt me because he doesn't want to be with me for "rebound" reasons, and that I deserve so much better than I've had. Yet, he says he wants to show me a good time and how it feels to be treated the right way But since his friends know my ex, he keeps it low pro, even though everyone knows it, and respects me, he puts that barrier up. The whole point of this is to the person above me, my answer to you I would rather get hurt in this manner, than get hurt in the other ways.
I guess I wasn't the only one going through all this. To everyone else, doesn't it suck to be an Aquarian woman. To put others before you, even if you tried not to, and have it somehow screw you over? My Leo friend I recently met told me, "it is what it is, you can listen to advice, but at the end of the night, you're gonna be dealing with the problem on your own. I am an Aquarian girl, and seeing a Capri man. I have been married to a cap for three years and lady's run!
He is my close friends brother when we first met it was like it was just me and him I had an argument with me friend because of this she told me that he met other friends of hers but was not like that. She said that me and her brother clicked first time around! She said we have a strong connection. I met family on her birthday and this is when she revealed that 2 of her other friends like her brother and thought I was the same.
She said she gets very annoyed when her one of her friends likes her brother. From that I know I can never tell her. I feel as though he is attracted to me I get on great with his mother and family. I have seen in conversations that he cares about me. I know he cares about me more than my friend.
But my friend always gets jealous when he takes care of me. I have met him twice and feel a lot of eye contact and he notices me a lot he always wants me to be around longer both times! His sister is in the way. I don't know weather he is interested in me or not.
I'm an 23 year old Aquarius female and my boyfriend is a 28 year old Capricorn.
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There's both positive and negative quirks about our relationship. He's incredibly smart, a bit anal particulary the strategy of cleaning and folding clotheswell mannered, competitive, dominating in bed which despite of my Aquarius nature, loves a man in charge. He fits your profile of a Capricorn man. Not to mention, he's very helpful in time of need, but only financially. Keep in mind ladies, that's the way a Capricorn man shows he loves you.
Very seldomly does he speak about his feelings. Everything is descibed in a rational way and includes a damn number. Oh yes, he's extremely calculative. I find this annoying and unnecessary in specific conversations. I on the other hand, am more delicate and want more attention. When he's wrapped up in a task, he's focused only on what he's doing and o nly makes me want him more.
I secretly crave his attention. And when I do, it feels rewarding. Ultimately, the relationship is stable and comforting.