12 Tips To Dating A Prisoner | Prison Writers
Anyone who's dating or in a relationship should visit this website. It's not a very good idea to date inmates, but there are many worse ideas. Dear April Masini, ". My fiancé and I are both 37 yrs old. My fiancé is currently in jail on a probation violation. He will be in for the next Why did a nice girl like me date an inmate? I told him about my disastrous dating experiences in college: the boyfriend who cheated on A pen pal can project all of her hopes and dreams on an inmate who wants nothing.
Or maybe it's safer to have a relationship with someone you don't actually need to spend time with? Whatever the reasons, these relationships are complicated, but apparently, they are also great.
In some cases, women truly believe that they have found the man that they want to spend the rest of their life with. Below are 15 confessions from women who have fallen hopelessly in love with a man behind bars. I'm not sure how exactly this girl connected with an inmate, but she has, and she think's he is pretty perfect for her. She hasn't met him yet, but seems very excited about what their future holds because she describes this guy as being her "dream guy.
Is it an ideal situation? Probably not, but people do change, so maybe he really is the man of her dreams. This woman apparently works in a prison, and she has fallen in love with an inmate, I don't even want to know how something like this starts out, but I suppose if you're constantly interacting with someone and you have their file on hand, you may feel as though you know them.
But the worst part of this is not even that this woman is married, but that she apparently even managed to hook up with the inmate -- this could pose a security risk because he could harm her and get access to her keys, or she could help him plan an escape.
And everyone who has ever been in love knows just how important it is to spend time together, but how do you do that when your man is behind bars?
It doesn't take a genius to work out that dating an inmate comes with a whole new set of rules and complications, and the woman behind this confession is experiencing this first hand.
That said, her situation is even worse because this is not a guy she met through a prisoner pen pal programme, but rather she met the man she's crushing on while working at the same prison where he is locked up. So, it should go without saying that it's going to be hard for this girl to break it to her parents that she's in love with a guy who is probably the same age as them.
And then, you have to let them be who they are.
You will have lots of choices after you tell them, depending on what their reactions are. But first things first.
Confessions From Women Who Met Their Love While He Was In Prison
If you expect them to not judge him and to be supportive of your decision to marry him, YOU are the one with unrealistic expectations.
So take responsibility for your own decisions. There are people who do go to jail wrongly. There are people who mess up, go to jail, and become rehabilitated.
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There are people who make mistakes and then go on to live perfectly productive lives. How hard was it to not violate his probation? How important was it to him not to violate probation? Is this his first offense? How many times has he been arrested? Is this a pattern? Is this behavior of getting arrested normal among his family?
How about his friends?